Blog, 2016-02-04 Discretion in Key
Many thousands of people have joined NoStringsAffair rather than trying to find someone for an illicit encounter in an offline environment or with a different hookup site. There are many reasons behind this, but what appeals most (well, after the hot sex on offer, of course) is our assurances that everything they do on the site will remain completely discreet and confidential.
You don’t join an online hookup site for affairs unless you understand that your relationship and the naughty nights you have with strangers are two completely separate things – you don’t want to end your marriage; you just want a ‘bit on the side’ to bring some fun back into your life! After all, it’s possible to stray and stay, people have been doing it for years!
But once you’ve found the perfect candidate for a steamy online affair, what happens next? After all the sex chats and naked selfies, how can you be sure you won’t get caught when you move things offline?
Here are our top tips to make sure your hot, anonymous sex remains Top Secret:
- Use our encrypted on-site messaging system to communicate – no facebook or whatsapp chats and definitely no phone exchanging of phone numbers
- Take advantage of our large member database and try to hookup with each person only once. Variety is the spice of life, but one night stands stop anyone getting too attached
- Meet at a quiet hotel, if possible
- If you travel on business, this can be a great way to ensure distance between your casual and serious relationships
- If you have to go out in public together, stay away from places you might visit with your wife or girlfriend
- Have a solid alibi in place
- Keep your phone away from your fuck buddy
- Don’t let guilt change the way you act with your partner – no sudden lavish gifts or re-living the sexual Olympics you enjoyed on your no strings sex date
- Be aware that some girls are just out for a “grudge fuck”. This can work to your advantage but remember they are doing it to get back at someone, so your privacy is more important than ever
- Pay with cash – partners check bank statements!
- It should go without saying but always PLAY SAFE! Some risks in life can be great fun but gambling with your health is never good and can lead to awkward questions